If you think being single has some harsh consequences on who you are as a person, your place in the social strata or what the world thinks of you, you need to think again. In a world where material things start to define who and where you are, a relationship is just another illusion. Scared of dying alone? Here are fifteen reasons why you shouldn’t.
It’s not you, it’s them.
If you think you’re causing people to drift off, that’s definitely not the case. If someone’s told you that, we know it was hard to hear. Despite that, we want you to hear it again, but this time, don’t let it hurt you. It sometimes happens so that people reflect their biases over you, just to belittle you and such statements can be far away from reality.
You have so many other people to love and be loved by!
Need a corner to rant about every harsh creep you face? well, your best friend is the best shoulder to cry on, And you don’t just have them, your parents have loved you your whole life. No matter how much you hate your siblings, they have been there for you, one way or another. Sometimes, you don’t even know the countless number of people who remember you before you go to sleep. Surround yourself with such people and spread the love!
Couples are actually jealous of single people!
“My boyfriend/husband doesn’t let me have guy friends”.
— Sam Mabedengu ❤💋💖💚 (@xynur) April 28, 2018
You may have wondered your friends complaining about their partners and admiring your bachelorhood, Well, that’s how life rolls for bachelors my friends. Couples will never like you enjoying all the perks of beings single but then again, The sky is your limit, let them be, and you, go grab all the beers in the bar!
Sometimes staying single equals more success
What are the two commons between Oprah Winfrey, Condoleezza Rice, Bradley Cooper and Johnny Depp apart from success? They’re all single! Sometimes, being single is the recipe for success. It spares you the time to invest in your careers, which many people happen to lack in the current day. It’s no wonder the CEOs like that of Tumblr (David Karp) Yelp(Geremy) happen to be single too!
You are limitless
You don’t have duties or have to fulfill some of the very screwed requirements that a relationship demands. You don’t have to worry about anniversaries, birthdays, and of course, spending load and loads of money on your partner. With all resources such as time, money and peace of mind at your disposal, you have the power to become limitless.
You don’t need someone to tell you “you’re beautiful”. Grab a mirror and let it tell you. Being single also means you can always mold according to your desires, you have the time to work on your skin, weight or any other way you could groom yourself.
To be brutally honest, everyone you see around right now is beautiful or potentially so. The only difference is, some keep working on themselves while others don’t.