First thing first, deep inside we all wish to be happy but the philosophy behind eternal happiness has become extremely difficult for people to understand. More often than not, we see people depressed because of various challenges in life.
Of course, the reason behind it can be very subjective but the most common mistake that people make is when they love too much and lose control over their happiness.
Sure, dating can be fun and might keep you happy for a while but if it becomes the only source of your smile then surely there is something wrong in that relationship. For all the girls out there specifically, truth is that most of the guys that you will ever find in your lives will turn out to be an a**hole and emotionless.
But so what? We often hear that guys are like that and they can get away with it, right? While this is a case which makes women weak eventually, why don’t we talk about strong women? The kind of women who are independent and carefree. The ones who truly believe that happiness lies within ourselves and no guy can ever change that for as long as they don’t let them.
When a girl loves anyone, she loves from all her heart and soul. But, the biggest mistake that most of the girls make at the same time is the compromise that they decide to make in order to put their partner’s happiness as a priority. One may claim love to be the reason behind it but it is actually that one-sided infatuation which makes you go crazy.
Don’t allow yourself to be fooled by the person who you think you deserve all the love from. If he has treated you like shit till now and promises to change himself every time then leave! If he was that honest about his love he would have never been a jerk to you in the first place.
A strong woman on the other hand knows about the kind of things she wants in her life especially in her relationships because there is no time for utter bullshit whatsoever. They don’t waste time and energy on a douchebag because they can realize if someone is loyal or attempting to deceive them.
This leads us to a solution of overcoming the challenges women most often face in a relationship and that can only happen if you tend to become a strong woman. Start from investing the same time and energy on yourself that would not only reciprocate your love but would also lead you to much better things in life.
For once, decide to put you as a priority and show the a**holes your worth by choosing for your happiness in the way you like it to be because the truth of the matter is, you won’t be alone if you choose to be alone. Sometimes your own company is all what you need. So its better to stay alone with yourself then with a douche bag in the name of love.
“You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection” – Buddha
While we say this, it doesn’t mean that you should say no to dating forever. In fact, taking that much needed break gives you that one more chance of improving your life and finding a partner that is worth your affection and care.
It can give you the opportunity to figure out what exactly do you wish for and improving yourself for your own good. Even if you crave of love for your happiness, then it can be your time to be happy because the right partner will put you on first priority instead of asking you for compromises.
Of course, to become a strong woman, it’s like easier said than done. But, there is nothing wrong in chasing your happiness and strong women do the smallest of things to grow themselves into where they want to. Be who you want to be and don’t get controlled by the similar pricks you face every day for the sake of love. It’s your only life, don’t waste it!